Is Self acceptance is the key to self motivation ?

Have you ever looked at the mirror nd felt like Why am I this ? why so fat?Why so small? Why so tall? Why so skinny? why so dusky ? 

So what are these ? 

These are insecurities we have with ourselves .. These isn't us saying it's our fears ,it's our insecurities we make us feel this way .

   

                         Have you seen the moon . We all admire it's beauty ..We say moon is so beautiful but How many of us look at its light ,it's spark ,it's glorification ..How many of us has noticed that moon also has scars (the meteors) ..So Why can't we accept the fact that we are perfect just the way we are ...

 

Beautiful faces are everywhere but souls are rare ..U can be beautiful by face what about a beautiful soul ..Self acceptance only means to accept yourself the way you are ..it doesn't means you can't include good changes in you ofcourse we all like good changes but then Accept your flaws,Accept yourself ,Be true to yourself.

When we accept ourselves for what we are ,We decrease the hunger for acceptance of others .

We all want to feel worthy , valued.  Who doesn't  wants but then you can't be like others only to be accepted by those . 

You will meet three types of people in your life :-

1.They will look at you with misery or pain and be like okay u have suffered so much and then back off. They will be like What can I do ? It's their problem but then I respect their honesty

2.They  will look at you as something who is imperfect ..these type of people will be really sweet to you and would always try to pull you one step back from YOU ,they will always make you count your flaws.

We need to seperate ourselves from judgements of such kind of people.

3.THEN there are thosee beautiful people who are so selfless that they will always be with u no matter what .. they don't make you count your flaws but then  try you to make those flaws as your strengths . They have always got your back .Value them .

SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE WHO WILL ACTUALLY ACCEPT YOU THE WAY YOU ARE..

We don't need others approval to be 

"WHO WE ARE "..We know our strengths ,weakness better than anyone else  so WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT TO ACCEPT OURSELVES?

It's because we must give up the fantasy that if we punish ourselves enough with negative thoughts, we'll change. STOP SAYING I AM WEIRD ,I AM BORING ,I AM QUIET ,I AM UGLY 

 Instead Say "I am perfect ,I am beautiful ,I love myself "

Some ways to achieve self love :-

*Be kind to yourself .you are the only one who judges yourself the mosttt so be kind enough to yourself to accept your imperfections ,your flaws.

*Confront your fears , I mean don't run from your fears ,your insecurities ..face them .. if u are not good with anything you are not ..it's over .there are areas where u work excellently ,look at the positive sides Always . 

*Stay positive 

*Believe in yourself - okay so the biggest magic is believe .. if u believe yourself then only others will do .  You need to have a faith in you nd your capabilities ..

* Do not give up no matter what - Be a person who never gives up it's okay to feel low , sometimes u may lose but then not giving up is important .. be a person who never gave up with odds in his life